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I come from a family of 7, we are all graduates except the first son who is into business. The second son is very very rich, he works with a big multinational company.
When we were growing up he hardly play with us the younger ones but he was close to the first son. But he totally changed after he got married 15 years ago.
Though our parents did not initially support his marriage because of the girls background (her father died and the mum went back to her house with the daughter) and her character too.
My brother got angry and said nobody should visit him or ask him for money. He used to help us in school.
Later my parents accepted and gave their support but since then my brothers attitude towards us really changed.
Each time I visit him , he does not give me money in the presence of the wife. Also he usually give me money to go and eat outside because she hardly cook(maybe cos of the initial rejection)
The way he talks to the first son is degrading and he hardly pick our calls. The first son business is not moving at all but he does not care though he has given him money and car some years back and they don’t talk to each other again.
On several occasions people have told the third son why his brother refused to help his family. They said he helps people alot in the multinational company and he is a very nice guy.
Please what do we do? I don’t want this separation to continue till death.. Our children are watching and I want us to relate as brothers and sisters.
Nobody is calling him to ask for money. Am an engineer but works in a hospital. All we want is that brotherly love. Since I finished school I have not asked him for money likewise some of my siblings.
What Should I Do?