A Nigerian woman has advised Single Mothers to prioritize child’s privacy when entering new relationship.
A TikTok content creator, @julie_figo1 advises single mothers on the need to hide their children so they can find a man to marry.
She elaborates on how some ladies with a child(ren) outside wedlock openly flaunt these children to a potential partner and his family members which oftentimes results in the latter leaving the relationship.
The woman stated that she does not mean that the child should be kept a secret from the man, but her emotions for the kid should not make her lose a man.
Reacting to this, many supported her claim while some argued children are a blessing and transparency is key in a serious relationship. Here is what they said:
azu30billion: She dey make sense o but I’m sure many people go still misunderstand am
special_omon: Yh I feel if they don’t ask on the first or second date then you can tell them,, because he must have liked you to want a 2nd date 🤷♀️
Bukky Miracle: Omo see advice. I never ever hid my kid and that was the attraction. Make una Dey careful Dey digest advice on this app o
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